You have been noticing how your partner seems to be getting a bit tired, or at least bored, with your relationship. You wonder why. You've done everything to share enjoyable moments together. In fact, last month, you watched a movie together. Last week, you watched another movie. Yesterday, you watched another movie. Today, you plan on something different, you'll rent a DVD and watch it together. Wow, that is so not boring.
In order to keep the fire burning, doing new things together is a must. You can't do the same thing every time you are together. It's like having pizza for breakfast every single day. Not that pizza is not healthy for the relationship; it's just that you have to try new things. Otherwise, you'll see your loved one's interest floating out the window; sometimes, with your loved one with it.
To avoid these heartbreaking situations, what you need is a romance calendar. No, it's not something you have to buy from a gypsy store. You have to make one yourself. (But yeah, if laziness gets the better of you, you can just buy one from a store.)
Creating a romance calendar is easy. All you need is an ordinary calendar or planner, on which you write reminders or scheduled activities. However, instead of filling it out with your business or academic notes, write down activities you plan to do to or with your partner on a particular day. It's like planning a romance schedule. The key here is creativity. You have to come up with activities or gimmicks to make your partner feel special. Bear in mind that you can't do the same thing for two or more consecutive days. The reason why you need it is to make sure that activities are well thought-out and strategically scheduled.
For example, you can go skiing today. Tomorrow, you can try that Greek restaurant in your are you have both wished to dine at. Little things like “sharing a two-minute kiss” or “cuddling up by the fire together” are also great ideas. Remember that these small things can boost your feelings big time.
You can create your own romance calendar secretly and surprise your partner every time. You can also do it with him or her to make sure that all the things you will be listing are those he agrees to do.
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