A Three-Step Guide to Becoming a Romantic

“I'm not a rock.”

This has been your mantra for more than two days now after your partner accused you of being a “rock.” For the longest time, the two sides of your brain are trying to figure out what she actually meant. Do you look like a rock? Do you feel like a rock? Do you act like a rock? Suddenly, you trip on a rock. You don't even feel any pain at all. Well, that's a rock.

Men are often considered to be less emotional than women --- or at least, less showy of their emotions. This works for some people, but you may find yourself having a problem with it. What's wrong with not being in touch with your sentimental side? If you're not in a relationship, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. If you are in one, then everything is utterly wrong with not expressing your emotions. If you're new to being a romantic, then let this three-step guide teach you how to be one.

Say it.

Although actions speak louder than words, it won't hurt to say how you feel sometimes. This is a cliché, but the words “I love you” really work. They really take breaths away. They may be a little overrated, but the hype says a lot about it. It's not just those three words. Say things that you know will melt her heart. Let her know how beautiful she is by complimenting her.

Do it.

Then again, words are not enough. You have to make her feel the love you feel for her. Make extra effort by preparing her breakfast or remembering important dates or taking her on a getaway. Sometimes, little actions have huge effects, too. Make sure every hug is tender and every kiss is sincere. Always look at her in the eye as if you're surrendering your soul to her. Those actions sound cheesy, but they are so damn effective.

Be proud of it.

What good is love if no one knows about it but you. Let the whole world know how much you love her by displaying your affection. Many people are anti-PDA (public display of affection), but you can't blame those people who are so in love that they want everybody to know that they already own each other.

There's nothing wrong with being romantic sometimes. You need it and your partner does, too. Your loved one needs assurance that what you feel for her is true. Make her feel that this relationship truly rocks.